FREEDOM -EQUIALITY-SECULARISM !!

I have just been privileged to attend and participate in the wonderful "Religious- Right, Secularism and Civil Rights" conference in London at the weekend.What an amazing experience! What brave and inspiring people! What connections,shared tears, laughter,strength and resolve. 

There are many Tyrannical regimes, they may have different faces and names but their tactics and inhumanity are the same. To be part of this was an honour,I wish you could have all shared ! So here is what I presented.

Peter Tatchell chairing the panel introduced Sue Cox this way:

"Sue is  the Co-founder of Survivors Voice Europe,a self funding organisation of catholic clergy abuse survivors , Sue was herself the victim of catholic clergy abuse as a child.  She describes herself as  "a 67 year old grandmother  with nine life threatening or life limiting conditions, who has been in her time an alcoholic, addict, serious self harmer with an eating disorder, a victim of clergy sexual abuse  and rape , suffered domestic violence  and attempted murder and  was single Mother of six children! "

Sue Cox :

I bet you cant wait to hear what I’ve got to say after that introduction!

When Peter asked me how I wanted to be introduced, I asked him to do it like that  to demonstrate something; How we all are very quick to  make assumptions!

Having described me this way, you may already have a picture in your head. A little bit like the charming man had  who,  after hearing me talk about this at a similar conference, thought it was his civic duty to keep me away from the bar!

       And although it is quite true that I am a recovered addict, what that description doesn’t tell you is that it is thirty eight years since I had a mood altering chemical, that I have worked in the addiction field for 35 years and am considered an expert in  my particular field.

I have developed a programme which is used in the Health service, prison service and military health.In 2010 I received a lifetime’s achievement award for my contribution to addiction treatment.

I head a large teaching organisation,  and I have personally taught thirteen thousand healthcare workers, including many consultant psychiatrists!I teach in 127 UK prisons. 

We all make assumptions!

Peter  also told you that  I was the single Mother of six children! So the image now may be of the old woman who lived in the shoe! Churning out children and living on benefits

                                        

What that image doesn’t say is that although that is perfectly true, I was left with 6 children under twelve when I was 32, I never received benefits or support from my violent ex husband, I worked -and I worked very hard , and now my children are all incredibly well rounded professional people who are an asset to the community.

We all do make assumptions!

Then we come to the bit about having been abused by a catholic priest as a child.

Last Time I spoke at an event like this someone came up to me afterwards and said when they saw it was “Clergy Abuse” survivors, their heart sank because they thought it was “yet another “victim” story”

I can assure you that isn’t what I am going to talk about. My personal story has been told many times, and that is not what this is about, in fact if we continue to dwell on the physical aspect of abuse we are missing the point.

If you look up here and see an old woman who should be pitied then you are making a big assumption!

When we simply focus on the sexual aspect of abuse we are so busy pitying people that we miss the broader more sinister issues.

Survivors voice Europe is very different from other “victim”

groups. For one thing, we focus on the empowerment of survivors, and we are the only organisation to do that very definitely from a Secular, Humanist, Atheist perspective. Today’s event offers my organisation a unique opportunity to delve a little deeper into one of the core principles of Survivors Voice Europe and to illustrate how our ethos keeps all of us that are involved away from that  victim label altogether  
                                                   

We are talking today about many different flavours of tyrant! all equally sinister, but  I can only speak with authority from the perspective of my dealings with the catholic church. Whilst we talk about the rise of new religious factions and break-away groups and the religious right, I feel that we cannot overlook one of the oldest and largest and most man manipulative religious organisations in the world.  

And I say Organisation because that is precisely what it is – a man-made, narcissistic structure who’s tentacles of control and indoctrination go in deep, go in early and are hard to shake off

The catholic church has been destroying peoples lives for two thousand years. And they are still doing just that

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Their rule is total and they exercise this through humiliation and subjugation (lets not forget that in catholicism even babies are born with original sin!), FEAR -  not only of repercussions during our life but fear about what is beyond! The catholic church wants to own us before, during and after our brief moments on this wonderful earth.

And they don’t look like barbarians, in the accepted sense of the word, although their tactics certainly are barbaric. They are educated, high functioning narcissists and like all narcissists they are often charismatic and charming. In that way they “hijack” peoples lives, they take us hostage.

When I was first recovering from addiction I was given this image:

Now, I don’t believe in the devil any more than I believe in god, but it was a very useful analogy..

Imagine your life as a beautiful, fully equipped ship with the potential and everything you need for the voyage in front of you, with the promise that you can go anywhere in the world that you want.

Then the devil hijacks that ship, and while ever you are in the grip of addiction you are powerless to stop his cruel and tyrannical rule. You are in chains, and he continues to rule with cruelty and terror. You are trapped and in dangerous seas.

But in recovery and with a LOT of very hard work, you overthrow that demon, and take back the ship to regain your power.

The devil is then relegated to a slave scrubbing the decks, But he is still barking out instructions! He still thinks he is in charge!

If we even consider listening to that voice for even one moment, we will be soon back in the grips of this narcissist.

Religious organisations, especially  the catholic church do exactly the same!They hijack you, they take you hostage!

And then they are the ones deciding the course of your journey, and people like me find ourselves  gazing into the horizon at a flotilla of self-driven, un-hijacked vessels heading off into the great unknown! -  There is no such thing as the great unknown in catholicism! Everything is planned and steered and woe betide you decide to try to escape, because even then they will threaten you with eternal damnation.

This no different from  the many famous  hostage situations throughout history; the Normallstorg bank robbery in Stockholm in 1973, Bovensmilde Elementary School, Entebbe, the Libyan Embassy Siege, the taking of Opec or the 3-day crisis for Air France Flight 8696 in 1994 – there are many crises of this nature, some even happening in your average street in your average house.

 

One elderly survivor of the Air France Flight profoundly described a hostage takers tactics when he commented that ”There was an art to their terror; 30 minutes of relaxation, 30 minutes of torture, you never knew what was next’.

What we know about the brain now is that it is hard-wired to survive at all costs, and the only way to do this is to be hardwired to be afraid of anything that threatens us.

So when, after three days the hostages were released from Normallstorg, it was not inexplicable to us why they would empathise,sympathise and even support the people that had taken them hostage.  

Through a studied process of intimidation, death-threats, random seeming kindnesses, isolation then re-integration into the group, lies, secrets etc. the hostages took the safest line possible – get on the side of the threat to stay alive.

Supplication was the only way, this kind of behaviour is  something  we see in other species too.

We know we integrate as groups, as packs, we now know that this is an important part of social development and cohesion.  But what is REPREHENSIBLE  is when this unique and inherent skill is used against us.

This is precisely the way that many religious organisations work, and is particularly true of the machinations of the catholic church.

Through cynical observation of the human dynamic, our need to belong is used against us. What happens is that as  people who  have been ‘taken hostage’  we end up dancing with a charismatic, Svengali-like narcissistic demon,

in  a sick and twisted eternal tango which is hard to extricate ourselves from.

                                                               

At Survivors Voice we KNOW that extrication from the dance is not only possible, but is  CRUCIAL. We know also that lack of confidence, lack of self-belief, lack of personal agency, lack of opportunities or hope are not how we started on that beautiful boat full of potential at the beginning of life.

We KNOW that these traits are a direct symptom of the toxic and potentially  lethal effects of religious intimidation and menace.
                          

                               
We show that steps to pull away from the need to belong to our captors are  NECESSARY we consider that every time we engage in “dialogue”, or in trying to convince our captors that what they are doing is wrong, or trying to plead or beg for recourse – we are continually giving our power away.

We are back to taking instructions from the deck scrubbing devil. We are feeding that narcissist and giving it back it’s power,

 Our power as survivors lies in going back to our inherent skills of belonging – but belonging to something authentic, somewhere safe where we can be without fear, where our human curiosity is not only celebrated but positively encouraged rather than repressed as sinful or ex communicable!

This is why for us secularism is so important, that deck scrubbing demon which is the catholic church STILL thinks it is in charge, that it can dictate the terms.

We will NOT be entering into “dialogue” again with these narcissists, we will NOT be “exploring the issues” for years on end to no avail, being exploited or re-abused

We will not be standing in front of churches with pictures of our childhood faces, we will not be joining “focus groups” created by churches, we are DONE with them

So when you see a pictures like these please resist the urge to make assumptions!

 What you see is definitely NOT what you get.

There IS NO CHANGE in the vatican, they just swapped a rat faced snake with a smily faced one, both equally slimy! Just a smily faced PR man wheeled in to give a better image to a failing regime.

                              

So having extricated ourselves from the grip of the church, it has allowed us to use our skills to empower others, we are  now connected with many  like minded survivors in Canada, USA, Africa, Australia, Poland, Italy, Russia,Hawaii,Ireland,England,Tasmania,Holland, Spain France and beyond !! Wherever those  catholic tentacles have reached, there will be many people who have been damaged.

No longer constrained by that malignant doctrine, we are free to regain our true potential and to take our place with the rest of the human race, using the skills we have acquired to help others.

I cannot categorically prove that all of my health issues and addictions were as a direct result of my childhood abuses, but the scientific research and evidence is compelling and says it is more than probable.

So in my teaching role I am able to teach others about the severity of abuse, and more importantly, what can help.Our courses “Winning the Battle of the abused brain” are doing just that!

In the same way as I didn’t get sober to sit around talking about drink all day, we didn’t get free from the church to sit around constantly talking about our abuses! We have survived, and survivors of abuse are strong people.

These aren’t innate skills, they have been acquired through dreadful adversity, and now they can be used as fertiliser for growth.

We can stand shoulder to shoulder with others who are fighting similar tyrants and together we are a force to be reckoned with!
                      

Sue Cox Lic.Ac M.B.Ac.C.

www.survivorsvoice-europe.org

0781 380 8026

Amphyllis's Eyes!

It is great  hearing my friend from the USA John Shuster talking  about his trip to England. He and his charming wife Sally are real Anglophiles! They even have two cats "Jane" and "Austin," that is pretty English!
So every day John posts another of his holiday pictures onto Facebook, and marvels at his finds, and it is quite wonderful to hear him wax lyrical about the ordinary everyday things that we take for granted here!! He shows pictures of scones and stone cottages, English tea rooms and 'Full English breakfasts"! All of those things that we don't even think about or notice any more. As if we are walking around with blindfolds!
It put me in mind of a lady who was  a very dear friend of mine she lived next door for many years until she died aged 99 and three quarters!
She was the most delightful English lady and was even born in the Edwardian times, and so was a true "Edwardian Lady "!She was called "Amphyllis" another very very old Edwardian name.
She had never married, was what used to be referred to as a "spinster lady" was incredibly intelligent, got her MA in the days when women were hardly ever educated let alone got a masters! 
She lived alone, had an enormous amount of friends, she was interested in everybody and everything and her house was always full of flowers, or cards from people who also loved her as we did.
She had a lot of visitors, always gave to most charities that ever needed a donation, and was kind to everyone .
As she got a little older, and occasionally got unwell, we tried to look after her a little more.My husband (a great cook!) made her soup every day after she had a chest infection because we were concerned that she should at least have one nutritious meal a day.
She loved it and she loved him! So he ended up making  her soup every day for nearly fifteen years!!
What made her so special also was that she was blind!  She had a tiny bit of residual  sight in one eye, but very little. Although she loved to hear about Gez's paintings, she couldn't actually see them, so I had to describe them to her, much to her delight!
She asked me to describe many things to her. When Sadam Hussein was in the news she asked me to tell her what he looked like (she listened to the radio all day!) when I did, she "Oh yes, that's JUST how I imagined him, the archetypal bully!"
She asked me what the little lime tree at the end of the garden looked like, and when I described it she said"Oh yes I remember when it looked JUST like that!"She knew how everything would look at each time of year. She was not depressed or angry at her loss of sight, she simply got on with it!
When I had to think about how to describe something to her it made ME look at things, REALLY look-  in order to give a good picture for her. I looked at everyday things with new eyes!
What a gift that was, and how easy it is to forget these lessons!
So Thank you to John Shuster for reminding me of that lesson! I have had a great day today. looking around me and imagining I have to describe things for Amphyllis's eyes!
As I look out of my office window, the Acer is turning a little pink, soon will be red, the elderflower tree has shed it's leaves, and the grass is covered in that speckled yellow.
The pond is clear and I can just hear the waterfall, I can see the fish have been breeding well, there are many more this year, beautiful colours.The only waterlilies left are the creamy white ones. Still quite a lot of butterflies around.
The sky is bright blue with just a few clouds, and the windows of Gez's studio need cleaning! The Hydrangeas are fading (I quite like them like that) 
and the vine leaves are pale yellow ready to fall.
My treatment room has hops around the windows, they could do with a trim but they  give a pretty light when I am inside.

That was just a quick glance out of the window, but I think it has given me so much joy that  I should remember to take that blindfold off and keep looking at everything around me  with  Amphyllis's eyes!

Count me OUT!

Listening to the various catholic apologists spout the statistics of catholics there are in the world again made me think!
I remember Salvatore and one or two other survivors saying they were going to "disavow" their baptism, and at the time didn't really understand the need to do that. I thought that because I categorically do NOT consider myself catholic that I was not! It seems however that regardless of my thoughts or beliefs the catholics still count me IN!! 
Bloody Hell!
I am not entirely surprised, they have , after all, always been about numbers and sod all to do with human beings. My mother always used to brag that various people she knew  "getting  pulled in at the back door" by being prayed for by a catholic priest on their deathbed - even if they were unconscious!
Their  statistics and numbers are meaningless.But it bothers me that I am on that list!
It is not like a trade list of inanimate objects, this is a list of human beings!
So I decided that it IS the right thing to do to be ex-communicated, and put at least my record straight. If you feel as strongly as I do, I really do reccomend you do the same.
For me this is a definitive step for the rejection of the church, unless I do this I will still be counted as a catholic, and I will still be allowing the inclusion of my name to  contribute to that erroneous perception of the church's numbers and stature. 
So what do you have to do?
Well they don't make it easy for you! In their utter arrogance they seem to think that you will change your mind,  especially since they have pushed the fear of hell fire and damnation down your throat since you were small. I guess they feel when it comes to it your fear of death will pull you "back in"! (through  the back door no doubt!)
Even more arrogantly they think you are incapable of making your own mind up!
The answers given:
THEM : " Well First of all, you should write to YOUR Bishop -YOUR parish priest can't help"
ME: "I don't have a bishop or a parish priest I am NOT a catholic!"
THEM : "You MUST  have a Bishop" 
ME: "What part of "I don't have anything at all to do with your church" do you not understand?"
THEM : (sniffily) "Well you must write to the Bishop of the diocese you live in, he can start the process"
So you write to the bishop, who ignores your letter, and then you write a second time, this time registered mail, and finally you get a reply.
From the church's perspective it is impossible to "un-baptise" someone because they believe that baptism permanently seals the person to christ and the church.

 THEM ; "If you are  asking  to be "ex-communicated"  this is very serious and should not be taken lightly.  But because  you are asking at all reveals the fact that you still  respect the church's authority, otherwise you wouldn't ask, we find that very reassuring , there is therefore some room for reconcilliation" "
What utter bloody arrogance!

ME:  "I am asking to be taken off whatever register you have because I have NO respect for you whatsoever and you are using me , and those like me to misrepresent your numbers!"

THEM:  "I suspect that it may  be that you have difficulty with some of the church's teachings, you should think carefully about what they are, and see if you can't see how they are in place for your own good"

ME:" Suspect away, but I can assure you  I don't have ANY difficulty at all in any of the church's teachings, I reject ALL Of them" 

THEM:  "Well you should think very carefully about this decision, we are concerned for your soul" 

ME: " I do not have a "soul,"  nor are you the custodians of  my mythical wellbeing"

THEM:   "Your parents claimed you for Christ when they baptised you because they wanted you to be part of God's church"

NO!!! 

ME: "My non religious "parents" (or at least the one who gave birth to me -  the other unknown) sold me to a childless fanatic catholic couple for adoption into their appalling church. I had NO say in it, made NO choices, made NO vows, and I hate everything about it"
I did not even go on to  talk about being brought up in absolute terror, being raped by one of their "men of god" as a child, or any of the other damage their indoctrination caused.
THEM: "You could be making a grave mistake. you need to give this careful reflection and  I will pray for you"
ME : "No Thankyou"  theres just one thing I want from you

GET ME THE FUCK OFF THAT LIST !!!!!

Breathing is good!

Well I have just come back from a week on the beautiful island of Jersey.It was a present from from my lovely husband for our silver wedding anniversary, it has always been a special place for us.

 I was going to post funny holiday shots and show you my Buddy splashing in the sea etc. I will still do that, but I am a bit pre- occupied because while I was away, I was notified  to go into hospital tomorrow for this long awaited nose operataion. I have sleep apnoea among other things, and apparently bashing my nose around a bit will help me breathe better. This is the third attempt! lats year was canceled because of Asthma and  other chest stuff, so third time lucky(or unlucky which ever way you look at it!) 
I don't fancy it much, my breathing is always a bit of an issue, and I get a bit panic stricken when I can't breathe very well. and the last time it was checked at the hospital the consultant said casually "Any history of trauma?"....
Of course, my professional understanding that  the  effects of sexual abuse are many and life long, but at sixty seven to be asked out of the blue was a strange experience !
Anyway, I had just been back one hour from holiday when they phoned to get me straight in for pre-op, "Any anxieties"? "Any worries"?"Any history of illness mental or emotional disturbance"? etc. etc. 
Theirs is a job, the paperwork.I  am sure a tedious chore, but I find it all so intrusive, and trigger inducing!
So I will hold the beach photos for a while and ask you to send me some love from wherever you are, to help me cope and recover!
I had another notification while I was away, a bit more embarrassing!
I was nominated for the "Inspirational women awards"!!! (without my knowledge of course!)
But the even more embarrassing thing is -I got shortlisted!! I can hardly believe it.
Of course I won't get an award, I think what I do is a bit too contraversial, and also a little uncomfortable for people. 
But I thank all the WOMEN  shortlisted me, with that kind of support, perhaps one day survivors like me will be able to walk tall and proud and show our wounds without fear of rejection and shame. 
What an honour! To be nominated, and then to be shortlisted is amazing for someone like me who comes from  such a very low ebb!
And I am delighted to be able to go to the award ceremony with my two beautiful daughters and my beautiful daughter in law, a champagne reception at Cadogan Hall in London on October 1st!
They say the dress code is "smart-glamourous" So I will look great with too black eyes and a swollen face!
But I will be in the company of inspiring women! Those that really deserve to be there and I will feel very fortunate indeed.
 I hope I will be soon back on my computer and breathing like other people! And able to rant a little more!

Winning the Battle of the abused brain

          

present

“Winning the battle of The Abused Brain”
A two-day experiential workshop exploring the science 
and true nature of childhood clergy abuse

For health-care professionals, lawyers, Survivors, affected others 
and everyone who cares!

Sue Cox  Lic.Ac. M.B.Ac.C
Louise Rooney MBACP AIP

Exploring the true nature of Survivors of

childhood clergy abuse

Imagine you are faced with the care of a being from an entirely different species, an alien that has never been seen before, and therefore is extremely precious.

Imagine that you are charged with the task of making it thrive and blossom in optimum health and well-being.

The answer would not be to throw just anything at it to see if it works!  And then try something else when that fails, and then something else, on and on; although this random tendency is what we come across often when people are trying to find the best way to help survivors of childhood sexual abuse.  It’s like throwing mud at a wall to see how much of it will stick.

We believe, however, that the correct thing to do would be to look very closely at the nature of that creature. To fully understand, and determine, what it actually needs.

We would examine it’s genetic makeup - is it vegetarian? Is it nocturnal? Is it happier in a group, or does it need solitude? Will it die if exposed to water? Will it bite? Is it timid? Does it need warmth or cold? What kind of habitat does it prefer?

What exactly does it require in order to survive and thrive?

As people who want to help, there is a tendency to “throw” what we consider “the best thing” at something, albeit out of kindness.

Maybe we will sit it in the sunshine, and give it the best fillet steak! Surely that will be the best thing it could have?

Great, unless the creature happens to be a cold blooded, nocturnal vegetarian that is allergic to UV rays!

You might feel better, but the creature will suffer!

Not much use to feel benevolent while doing the wrong thing. There are many tragedies brought about by people doing the wrong thing, for what they perceive to be the right reasons.  It is very easy to kill someone with kindness.

When faced with recovery from childhood clergy sexual abuse we need to first of all look at the very nature of that Survivor; for example, you may know what a lion looks like, but do you REALLY know it’s true nature?  It is no use assuming that what you may feel is the “best” for that person until you have a clear picture of the nature of abuse.

In our two-day workshops we examine the true nature of the survivor, how they have been damaged and more importantly, what interventions can really help.

Why timing is crucial, why some interventions are inappropriate unless they are timed correctly, and why some are great!

We will look specifically at the Survivors brain, the target organ of trauma; how it is affected and what we can do about it.

We will examine the research that highlights the damage to the immune and metabolic systems of the abuse survivor, and how it can be possible to achieve optimum health.

We will share simple and inexpensive tips and tools to empower the Survivor, even when they are alone.

Survivors are not clones; they are unique and irreplaceable individuals, and the way each one is dealing with their own trauma is determined by many factors, and should be their own choice. 

What we have done is to create a programme for optimum strength, regardless of the direction a person’s recovery is taking.

They need, and deserve, their best shot at happiness, to be as well as possible to begin and sustain their fight.

Like a prize-fighter needs a special regime in order to be at his peak! He will need the right diet, the right exercise the right mindset for more power, more speed, more endurance.

If survivors are overwhelmed, they are liable to lose their determination. Fear will often drive a fighter to make painful mistakes. It has been common to see Survivors severely weakened and consequently re-abused, either because they are too hurt, ill informed, dismissed, badly advised, or are not able to look after themselves as well as they might.

Survivors of clergy abuse should consider themselves as a very precious member of an endangered species, and value their recovery above all else. 

It is pretty near impossible to win a fight as big as this one if you show up for it at less than your very best.

The worst part of fighting is not the fight itself, it’s not even the arduous preparation - it is the getting destroyed when you have fought so hard to win!

Our two-day workshop is designed to empower that Survivor – Prize-fighter!

For therapeutic professionals, who need to see how best to help this client group.

For lawyers who need to understand the severity of the task and to be better able to incorporate the biology of trauma into their clients’ cases.

For families and friends who are desperately trying to make sense of the situation.

For heroic Survivors themselves, who need to be equipped with as much armour and weaponry as they can muster.

DAY ONE

Using a mixture of lecture and film

*Starting with an overview of the Worldview of childhood clergy abuse. The concept of Institutional abuse, the nature of the abuser, fear based enabling and facilitation of the abuser and assassination of the spirit.

*We will learn about the structure and working of the Brain - the most complex and powerful structure in the Universe!

This is the target organ of abuse.

*We will take a fresh and exciting look at the wonders of that brain and show what can go wrong.

*We will explore conditions associated with childhood sexual abuse: current understanding of PTSD, depression, anxiety, paranoia, psychosis, addictions, self-harming, etc.

*What causes flashbacks, nightmares, and how triggers work.

*We will highlight how childhood abuse causes physical changes within the brain, and how the damage manifests; the biological as well as the psychological damage.

*We will look at the current and damning evidence to suggest how the immune and metabolic systems are also damaged.

*We will examine the current understanding (and misunderstandings) about the manifestations of childhood abuse. How what has always been referred to as “psychological damage” has its roots, in fact, in permanent physical changes.

*We will show how, that damage can be passed on to the next generation, and the next.

DAY TWO

OK! What about the GOOD news!

Connections and empowerment!

We believe that the individual survivor should be the primary focus. There is no doubt that being active in the global fight, and contributing to the elimination of child clergy abuse, connecting with, and helping others, can be, for some, beneficial.

However, if Survivors are in poor shape themselves they will not be able to sustain that impetus. Personal recovery has to be the starting point, without that we can have only a limited impact.

With a greater understanding, we can cement the bridge between how someone feels, to the biological reason for those emotions. It would be pointless knowing the science, and not using it!

*   With the emphasis on optimum brain health and survivor empowerment, we will explore some powerful interventions.

*   We are a multi-disciplinary team, and drawing on our understanding of neuroscience, psychotherapy, Western and Chinese medicine, we have created a dynamic, multi-layered programme to nurture each Survivor in an holistic way, regardless of where they happen to be on their own journey with a focus on empowerment.

*   We will show which therapies are great and why some are not so great! Why timing is crucial! Some therapies are useful only when used at the correct time.

*We will explore some of the difficulties a Survivor’s recovery might encounter, and offer some very simple and effective tools, and tricks to empower that Survivor.

*We will include self-help tools, specific diet and nutrition, exercises, and meditations,

Everything a Survivor - Prize Fighter will need to go from being a victim to Victor!

Armed with a more thorough and scientific understanding of the severity of abuse, and the true nature of the abused person, therapists, health-care professionals, lawyers, families and survivors alike, will be better able to care for that precious member of “ an endangered species” and allow them regain their power, to soar above their abusers!

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